Fidelity Checks

Is Your Spouse Cheating?

The only way you can really know if your spouse is cheating - without endangering yourself and your relationship, is to get the facts from a private investigator.
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Some Common Signs That Your Partner May Be Unfaithful

• Your partner has a secret post office box or private mailbox.

• You receive an unusually high number of 'wrong number' or 'hang-up' telephone calls at home.

• You notice new cologne/perfume fragrances around your home, in your bed, the bathroom and/or your partner's clothing.

• Your partner's automobile mileage reflects discrepancies regarding distances driven in connection with activities your partner reports.

• You discover that your partner has a secret bank account.

• You observe unaccounted for hairs (different color or length) found on your partner's clothing, in the house and/or in an automobile.

• There are alcohol stains, cigarette smoke smells, lipstick or makeup stains on clothing.

• You discover credit or debit card transactions for unusual or otherwise unexplained services and/or products, including hotels/motels, travel agencies, flowers, jewelry, gifts, personal services, automobile rentals, dating services and/or Internet services.

• You discover unusual telephone long-distance or cellular calls.

• You become aware of unusually large or frequent bank and/or ATM cash withdrawals.

• You notice unexplained travel and/or lodging expenses reported on Income Tax returns.

• Your partner suddenly decides to join a spa, gym, health club or tanning salon.

• Your partner suddenly changes his/her appearance, including a new hair style or color, begins using new colognes or perfumes, buys a new wardrobe, changes clothing style, begins dressing nicer to just to "hang out with friends" and/or begins wearing 'sexy' under garments.

• You discover that your partner has purchased a secret new cellular telephone or pager, and/or erases calling records from a cellular telephone.

• You notice a general lack of communication or outright evasiveness regarding your partner's daily activities.

• Your partner spends a greater than normal amount of time on the Internet, or does so at times when you are not around the computer.

• Your partner spends time in Internet chat rooms, "just having a little fun" or "making new friends" and insists on chatting alone.

• Your partner has a significant increase or lack of interest in sex.

• Your partner exhibits defensive and/or evasive behavior during normal conversations and/or confrontations regarding your suspicions.

• You catch your partner lying about seemingly small and insignificant matters.

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Additional Signs That Your Male Partner May Be Unfaithful

• Your male partner speaks often (positively or negatively) regarding a new co-worker, supervisor, employee, etc.

• Your male partner has a new female "friend" he spends time alone with.

• Your male partner leaves for work earlier or arrives home from work later than usual.

• You receive telephone calls from women who work for/with your male partner.

• Your male partner arrives home late from work, and then ignores your romantic advances.

• Your male partner starts bringing you flowers (or other romantic gifts) and acts much nicer than usual toward you.

• Your male partner stops bringing you flowers (or other romantic gifts) and acts more hostile toward you.

• Your male partner starts asking you to perform sexual acts in which he has never before expressed an interest.

Additional Signs That Your Female Partner May Be Unfaithful

• Your female partner suddenly becomes obsessed with her weight or other physical appearances.

• You discover new lingerie that your female partner keeps hidden from you.

• Your female partner becomes more involved in activities outside the home.

• Your female partner has a new male "friend" she spends time alone with.

• Your female partner tells you that she is visiting a "sick" relative or friend.

• Your female partner begins spending more time with new friends whom you have never met.

• Your female partner suddenly, and without explanation, changes jobs, receives a transfer, or begins traveling more often.

• Your female partner suddenly starts showing you more attention than usual and/or initiates sex more than she did previously.

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